Saturday, January 12, 2013

Memories and Thanks Blog Hop

How did this Blog Hop come about? 

The following is borrowed from Lori Anderson's blog, Pretty Things

"You never know what you might mean to someone.

In order to participate in the Bead Soup Blog Party, you need to have a blog. Marianna was very excited about the party but needed help to build a blog.  Marianna and I talked about what she wanted and I made it for her. Marianna started blogging.

The Bead Soup Blog Party came and went but Marianna hadn't signed up. I sent her a few emails to see how she was but there wasn't a response. Then one day, her daughter emailed me to let her know Marianna had suddenly passed away.

Days went by and I got a box in the mail from her daughter. I knew the box was coming, and that it had something in it from Marianna that she hadn't had a chance to mail before her death. What I DIDN'T expect was for each bead to be individually wrapped with Marianna's personal messages attached to each one, and a card that told me how she valued Lori's friendship.

So the Memories and Thanks Blog Hop was birthed! 

This blog hop is both for Marianna and for those people in our lives who mean a lot to us -- a mom, a friend, a brother -- anyone who has meaning to us.  Create a piece of jewelry that tells that story."

Now for my memories and thanks - 
This is dedicated to my mother. I am the oldest child of 5 and only girl. I was and am, a strong-willed girl and woman. My mother taught me to be! As I grew up, I was always close to my mom. However, over the years we began to  clash. I made some bad choices and chose a path of self-destruction. My mom tried to provide guidance. I wouldn't hear of it. I distanced myself from her. I even told my her she wasn't my mother and to never speak to me again. She mailed me a Christmas gift that year. I mailed it back. Time passed. I was told I had to forgive to find some peace. I did as suggested (through a lot of writing and emotional work).  

Through the help of 12 huge Steps, I have learned much about me, and my mom. We have made peace with each other. Today, my mom is my best friend. I love her more than life! 

In July 2011, she was diagnosed with Stage 4 Breast Cancer, metastaticized to her liver and both lungs, as well as in her right breast and her lymph nodes. I was devastated! What I heard the doctor say was - "get your affairs in order. If you're lucky, you may live to see Christmas." 

My mom told the doctor she wanted to fight. She would do what it took to live to see her 50th wedding anniversary (May 2013). My mom asked me to attend all doctor's appointments, and gave me the privilege of being her healthcare proxy. I was honored. I have held to my commitment and have walked with her every step of the way.

She survived 2 different rounds of chemo treatments. Which landed her in the hospital 4 different times. Once in ICU. While in ICU, she had a heart attack!! 

Today, my Mom is still alive. She has fought cancer and beats it everyday that she remains alive. There are no spots in her liver or her lungs. The spot in her breast has been shrunk to a manageable lump. 

My mom has taken up beading and chain maille. She is my partner. My Best Friend. We travel together and do craft shows together. I love her! I do my best to honor her in my actions. 

The necklace I made is in her honor. I chose purple because it's representative of royalty - my mom is royal! The Pink in the necklace is symbolic of her fight against cancer. I chose pearls because pearls are classic and classy - LIKE MY MOM!! 

Thanks to my mom for helping me become who I am today!!

So here is my design...

Now that you've seen my design, check out the other participants!

Hostess, Lori Anderson       Pretty Things
 Adlinah Kamsir                 Dream Struck Designs
 Aimee Biondolillo             Aimee's Jewelry Treasures
 Alicia Marinache              All the Pretty Things 
 Andra Marasteanu           Handmade by Indra Marasteanu 
 Andrea Trank                   Heaven Lane Creations
 April Grinaway                  Brooklyn Bead Goddess
Barb Solem                      Vivi Magoo Presents
Becky Pancake                Becky Pancake Bead Designs
Beth Emery                      Stories by Indigo Heart
Bonnie Coursolle             Jasper's Gems
Cassi Paslick                   Beads: Rolling Downhill
Catherine King                Catherine's Musings
Cece Cormier                  The Beading Yogini
Chandra Leitz                  Juniper Goods
Charissa Nesler              FireStorm Designs
Charlie Jacka                  Clay Space
Christina Hickman           Vintage Treasures Jewelry
Christine Murrow             Charis Designs Jewelry
Christine Stonefield         Sweet Girl Design
Chrizette Bayman            Bead Soup Mix
Cindy Wilson                   It's My Sea of Dreams
CJ Bauschka                   4 His Glory Creations by CJ
Crystal Thain                  Here Bead Dragons
Cyndi Lavin                    Beading Arts
Debbie Rasmussen        A little of this, a little of that
Denielle Hagerman        Some Beads... and other things I like
Diana Gonzalez              Arte y Poemas
Diane Hawkey                diane hawkey
Dita Basu                        ankarshilpa
Donetta Farrington         Simply Gorgeous
Dyanne Everett-Cantrell     Deeliteful Jewelry Creations (you are here)
Emma Todd                        A Polymer Penchant
Erin Kenny                         beadiful therapy
Erin Prais-Hintz                  Treasures Found
Gina Hockett                      Freestyle Elements
Gloria Allen                        Innovative Dreams Jewelry
Heather Marston                 CSW Designs
Inge von Roos                    Inge's Blog
Iveth Caruso                       Creative Atelier
Jacqueline Marchant          Fiddledeedee Jewelry
Jami Shipp                         Celebrating Life!
Jean Yates                          Snap Out of it Jean, There's Beading to Do!
Jennifer Reno                     Musings of a Crafty Jenny
Jenny Robledo                   Peppa's Dream
Jennifer VanBenschoten    Jewelry, Art and Life
Jessica Klaaren                  Cellar Door Jewelry
Jessica Murray                   Whimsical Monkey
Joan Williams                     lilruby jewelry
Jo-Ann Woolverton            It's a Beadiful Creation
Joanne Browne                   josjewels1
Jodie Marshall                    Jodie Marshall Lampwork Beads Wearable Art
Johanna Rhodes                 Fire Phoenix Creations
John Rasmussen                 Rasumussen Gems and Jewelry LLC
JuLee Wolfe                       The Polymer Penguin
Julie Bean                           Blue Pig Blog
Karen Mitchell                   Over the Moon Designs
Karin King                         The Sparklie Things Blog
Karin Slaton                       Backstory Beads
Kat Douglas                       Washoe Kat's
Kay Bolton                        Toodles and Binks
Kelly Hosford Patterson     The Traveling SideShow
Kim Ballor                          Vitamin C ... A Daily Does of Creativity
Kim Dworak                       CianciBlue
Kim Houston                       The Pink Martini
Kym Hunter                         Kym Hunter Designs
Laren Dee Barton                Laren Dee Designs
Lea Avroch                          LA Jewelry Designs
Leanne Loftus                      First Impression Design
Liddy McLaughlin               Liddy McLaughlin Art
Linda Florian                       Lily's of the Valley Jewelry & Creative Creations
Linda Inhelder                     Must-Haves Jewelry
Lisa Hamilton                      Simply Irresistable Jewelry
Lisa Suver                            Fancee That
Lori Bowring Michaud        Artfully Ornamental
Lori Poppe                           Adventures in Creativity with Lorillijean
LouAnn Elwell                    Southpass Beads
Mandi Effron                       Craft-o-licious
Marcia DeCoster                 MadDesigns
Marcia Dunne                     The Alternative Foundry
Marie Covert                      Creating Interest
Marjorie Savill Linthwaite     bennubirdrising
Marlene Cupo                        Amazing Designs by Marlene
Martha Aleo                           Ornamento
Marti Conrad                          Marti's Buttons -n- Beads
Mary Ellen Parker                  BeeTree by m.e.
Mary Govaars                        MLH Jewelry Designs
Mary Lindell                          Mary Lindell Artisan Jewelry
Maureen Connolly                 Mrs Beadsley's Workshop
Maybeline Tay                       The Jewelry Larder
Melissa Elgin                         The Addicted Beader
Melissa Mesara                      one-eared pig beads
Menka Gupta                         Menka's Jewelry
Michaela Pabeschitz              la mar de bonita
Mischelle Fanucchi               Micheladas Musings
Mona Rae Baroody               Who Does She Bead She Is?
Nan Emmett                          Spirit Rattles -- Spirited Earth
Nancy Pedersen                    Something Heartfelt by Nancy
Natalie Davidson                  NorthShore Days
Nikki Douglas                      Bead It and Weep
Pam Farren                           re-maker
Pam, the Crazier Sister        The Crazy Creative Corner
Pam Traub                            Klassy Joolz
Priya Krish                           Hellopalz  
Rebecca Anderson               Song Beads
Rebecca Sirevaag                 Becca's Place
Robin Kae Reed                   Artistry HCBD
Rochelle Brisson                  a creative chelle
Rosa Maria Cuevas              Helena de Troya
Sabine Dittrich                     perlendschungel
Sandi Volpe                          Sandi Volpe
Sandra McGriff                    Creative Chaos
Sarah Goode                         Pookledo
Sarah Singer                         String a Song of Sixpence
Serena Trent                         All Things Made Jewelry
Shai Williams                       Shaiha's Ramblings
Sharon Palac                        Sharon's Jewelry Garden
Sharyl McMillian-Nelson    Sharyl's Jewelry & Reflections
Sheila Davis                         Stone Designs
Shelley Graham Turner        Fabric of My Life
Sherri Stokey                       Knot Just Macrame
Sherry Baun                         Unicorns Jewels
Skylar Bre'z                         Brising Beads
Stephanie Haussler              Pixybug Designs
Tania Spivey                        Moobie Grace Designs
Terri G.                                Blooming Ideas
Terry Carter                         Tapping Flamingo
Terry Matuszyk                    Pink Chapeau Vintage Jewelry
Toltec Jewels                       Jewel School Friends
Tracy Kruse                         Goldkisses Art
Tracy Martin                        Nutkitten's Jewelry
Zia Parks                              Anzi~Panzi's Work Shoppe
Zoe Marcin                          Beads, Tea and Sweets
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